Despite
stunned villagers branding the act 'sickening' the boy's family
defended the union saying it was just a ritual and not legally binding.

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Last year the bride and groom tied the knot
after Saneie claimed he had been told by his dead ancestors to wed and
his family took the message from the heavens very seriously

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Helen's husband of 30 years, Alfred Shabangu,
66, (right) and their five children, aged between 38 and 28, all
attended the ceremony

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Alfred said that he and his childrne were happy
about the marriage: 'we don't have a problem with her marrying the boy -
and I don't care what other people say'
Sanele's
47-year-old mum, Patience Masilela said: 'Sanele was fine and he was
happy about the ceremony last year and it what he wanted - he was not
shy.'
'He was just happy to get married, very excited and was not embarrassed about it. So much so he wanted to do it again.
'After
the wedding last year people keep asking them question like will they
live together, sleep together, have babies but I keep telling them that
after the wedding everything went back to normal nothing changed.
'Sanele moved to Venda not long after the wedding because he wanted to learn a new language, but they are very close.

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Sanele's 47-year-old mum, Patience Masilela,
insists that the marriage is simply symbolic and not legally binding and
that her son is very happy about the arrangement

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The young groom said he hoped to have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when he was older
'Our families are very close. It was nice celebrate with a wedding once more, it was after all a calling from the ancestors.
'By
doing this we made the ancestors happy. If we hadn't done what my son
had asked then something bad would have happened in the family.'
The
widow, who works at a recycling centre, added : 'I didn't have a
problem with it because I know it's what the ancestors wanted and it
would make them happy.'
Young groom Sanele said he hoped he would have a proper wedding to a woman his own age when he was older.
'I told my mother that I wanted to get married because I really did want to,' he said.
'I'm happy that I married Helen - but I will go to school and study hard. When I'm older I will marry a lady my own age.

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Sanele and his bride did not sign a marriage
certificate and do not have to live together. Both have gone back to
their normal lives

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The groom's mother (right) strongly believes
that the duos' unity is a necessity and a 'calling from the ancestors',
saying: 'If we hadn't done what my son had asked then something bad
would have happened in the family'
'I
chose Helen because I love her and although we don't live together all
the time we meet at the dumping site where my mother works regularly.'
Old
enough to be his grandmother, bride Helen, whose children are aged
between 38 and 28, yesterday said she was still happy with the
arrangement.
The
recycling worker- who donned the same dress - said: 'I'm very happy
that the boy chose me and my family support and understand that it is
part of making ancestors happy.
'One
day Sanele would grow normally and have family of his own and get
married one day, all this ceremony is for making ancestors happy. We are
playing.'
Sanele and his bride did not sign a marriage certificate and do not have to live together.
Both have gone back to their normal lives.
Helen's husband of 30 years and builder Alfred, attended both wedding ceremonies along with the couples five children.
The
67-year-old added: 'My kids and I are happy because we don't have a
problem with her marrying the boy - and I don't care what other people
say.'
Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2699413/Boy-nine-marries-62-year-old-mother-children-triple-age-make-ancestors-happy.html#ixzz38B9FMl27
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