Jobs at Aga Khan University Karachi آغا خان یونیورسٹی میں ملازمت کے مواقع موجود ہیں
The Citizen Foundation (TCF)’s holds annual inter-school singing competition
Karachi, September 30, 2014: Peek Freans Gluco, the third largest brand in English Biscuit Manufacturers (Pvt.) Limited (EBM)’s portfolio, is supporting The Citizen Foundation (TCF)’s annual inter-school singing competition, Obhartay Sitaarey. The final round of this competition will be held on October 11, 2014.
Obhartay Sitaarey is a TCF initiative to increase awareness about TCF’s program and to raise funds for its schools, along with providing a stage for school going children to exhibit their singing talent. Approximately 50,000 children participated in this fund-raising drive from across Karachi. The competition started in September with 450 teams from different schools participating in the selection rounds. After a 5-days rigorous activity, 104 students have been shortlisted to participate in the finale.
Commenting on this initiative, Zulfiqar Ali Ansari, Head of Marketing, EBM said, “Peek Freans Gluco has always supported initiatives that provide a platform for children to come forward and exhibit their talent. Gluco believes in nurturing young kids by providing wholesome nourishment that contributes to their cognitive and physical development, which brings out the best in them. Such activities need to happen more often to explore the untapped talent of Pakistan.”
EBM has been supporting TCF year on year and has fully adopted two school units, a primary unit in Sarhindi Goth and a secondary unit in Quaidabad covering all operational and administrative expenses of the campus.
English Biscuit Manufacturers (Private) Limited was established in 1967 as the first manufacturer of wholesome, hygienic packaged biscuits in Pakistan. For over 45 years, EBM has been a symbol of trust and confidence for consumers, making it the leading biscuit manufacturer of Pakistan. EBM has an extremely diverse corporate social responsibility (CSR) portfolio, driven by a commitment to improving lives. With one of the largest CSR budgets amongst national and multi-national companies, EBM has made significant contributions in areas as diverse as health, education, community welfare, and sports-related causes.
کئی مردوں سے بیک وقت شادی لڑکی کو مہنگا پڑگیا : دیکھیں کیسے
صومالیہ میںالشباب کے زیر قبضہ علاقے میں ایک خاتون کو خفیہ طور پر کئی شوہروں سے شادی کرنے کے جرم سنگسار کرکے ہلاک کردیا گیا۔ عینی شاہدین کے مطابق جنوبی ساحلی ضلع براوے مکیں خاتون کو گردن تک زمین میں گاڑھ دیا گیا اور پھر عمامہ پہنے افراد نے بھرے مجمعے کے سامنے ان پر پتھر برسائے ،ہجوم تب تک پتھر برساتارہا جب تک خاتون بے حرکت نہیں ہوئی ۔
محمد یوسف کے بھائی اور بھابھی بیٹے سمیت دائرہ اسلام میں داخل
لاہور: سابق کرکٹر محمد یوسف کے بھائی اور بھابھی نے اسلامی تعلیمات سے متاثر ہونے کے بعد بیٹے سمیت اسلام قبول کرلیا ہے۔
ایکسپریس نیوز کے مطابق محمد یوسف کے بھائی اور بھائی بچوں سمیت لاہور میں جامعہ اشرفیہ میں مفتی عبید کے سامنے کلمہ حق پڑھ کر دائرہ اسلام میں داخل ہوگئے جبکہ مفتی عبید نے انہیں کلمہ پڑھانے کے بعد سرٹیفکٹ بھی جاری کردیا، نومسلم خاندان نے اعلان کیا کہ وہ آئندہ اپنی تمام تر زندگی اسلام کے بتائے گئے طریقے کے مطابق گزاریں گے جب کہ جامعہ اشرفیہ کے مفتی شاہد عبید نے محمد یوسف کے بھائی بھولا کا اسلامی نام ” محمد جمیل ” ، بیوی کا نام “عشرت ” اوران کے بیٹے کا اسلامی نام ” محمد ابو بکر” رکھ دیا.
واضح رہے کہ سابق ٹیسٹ کھلاڑی محمد یوسف کا تعلق عیسائی برادری سے تھا اور ان کا پرانا نام یوسف یوحنا تھا لیکن اسلامی تعلیمات سے متاثر ہوکر دائرہ اسلام میں داخل ہونے کے بعد انہوں نے نہ صرف اپنا نام تبدیل کردیا بلکہ اسلام کی تبلیغ کے لئے بھی اپنے آپ کو وقف کردیا۔ ڈیلی ایکسپریس
Shameful act of Air Line - پیسوں کے لئے ایئرلائن کی شرمناک حرکات۔ دیکھئے کیسے؟
ویت نام کی ائیر لائن ’ویت جیٹ‘ نیم برہنہ فضائی میزبانوں کی حیا سوز تصاویر کے ذریعے اپنی مشہوری کرنے پر ایک بار پھر خبروں کا موضوع بن گئی ہے۔ملک کی مشہور فیشن ڈیزائنر نگورک ٹرن نے پچھلے ہفتہ اپنے فیس بک پیج پر متعدد تصاویر جاری کیں ہیں جن میں ائیر لائن کی خوبرو ملازمین انتہائی فحش لباس پہن کر طیاروں کے اندراور باہر رقص کر رہی تھیں۔تصاویر سامنے آنے کے بعد ائیر لائن کو متعدد حلقوںکی جانب سے تنقید کا سامناکرنا پڑا ہے۔ناقدین کا کہنا ہے کہ ائیر لائن مشہوری کے لیے اخلاق باختہ ہتھکنڈے استعمال کر رہی ہے اور خواتین کو ایک جنسی شے کے طور پر پیش کر رہی ہے۔ائیر لائن کا کہنا ہے کہ تصاویر ایک آزمائشی منصوبے کا حصہ ہیں اور ابھی انہیں استعمال کرنے نہ کرنے کا فیصلہ باقاعدہ طور پر نہیں کیاگیا ہے ۔یہ ائیر لائن پہلے بھی دو دفعہ ائیر ہوسٹسوں کا فحش رقص کروانے کی وجہ سے تنقید کا نشانہ بن چکی ہے اور اسے جرمانہ بھی ہو چکا ہے۔ ڈیلی پاکستان
Vietnam airline fined for inflight bikini show - increased business though
A Vietnamese airline has been fined for hosting a mid-flight dance by bikini-clad beauty pageant contestants without first getting permission. (YouTube)
This is one way for an airline to build customer support: host a mid-flight, bikini-clad beauty pageant.
AFP reports that the Vietnamese carrier VietJet hosted a Hawaiian-themed dance contest to celebrate the airline's maiden flight between Ho Chi Minh City and the tourist hub of Nha Trang, but got in trouble -- not for the parade of scantily-clad women -- but for making the mistake of not first gaining permission by the Civil Aviation Administration of Vietnam.
The airline "violated local aviation regulations" by organizing "an unapproved show on a flight," Nguyen Trong Thang, chief inspector of the Civil Aviation Administration of Vietnam said.
The low-cost carrier has been fined $1000 for hosting the mid-flight contest.
The five women who participated in the beauty contest performed a three-minute dance on a Aug. 3 flight while passengers recorded the show on camera phones and later posted clips online, AFP reports.
The incident has caused a stirred in Vietnam, a conservative country, after photographs and video clips spread on the Internet.
یونس خان خود کو گولی مارنے پر اتر آئے۔ دیکھئے کیوں؟
Selectors drop Younus from ODI squad for Australia series
Pakistan cricket selectors, led by former Test wicketkeeper Moin Khan, on Wednesday dropped veteran batsman Younus Khan from a Pakistan one-day international squad named for the upcoming Australia series to be played in the United Arab Emirates (UAE) next month. The national selection committee took the decision keeping in view the performance of Younus. Younus made an ODI comeback last month, during the Sri Lanka tour, not having played 50-over cricket for Pakistan since March 2013. He scored 3 in his only innings of the series before he had to fly home following the death of his nephew. The selectors’ decision to drop Younis is a blow to his stated aim of playing in next year’s World Cup in Australia and New Zealand.
Chief selector Moin told reporters it would be hard for the batsman to be considered for the World Cup squad. In Younus’ place, the selectors have brought back middle-order batsman Umar Amin and Asad Shafiq. “Our experiment with Younus in the ODI series in Sri Lanka backfired,” Moin said. “Now all have unanimously decided to look ahead to our future with youngsters. His services for Pakistan are commendable but now we have to take a step forward and he is also out of contention for the 2015 World Cup.” Australia and New Zealand will host the World Cup from February 14-March 29 next year. Younus, despite having an impressive batting average of 51 in 91 Tests, has not been as effective in ODIs, scoring 7017 runs at an average of 31.
The selectors also ignored experienced pacer Umar Gul for the ODI and T20 squads and dropped left arm spinner Zulfiqar Babar. Moin said that while announcing the two squads the main thrust was on the World Cup “which is why we have focused on youngsters like Saad Nasim.” Nasim, a leg spinner-batsman, is the only uncapped player in the two squads. “We have also recalled some young players like Umar Amin and Raza Hasan to bolster the squad.”
The selectors also recalled opener Owais Zia for the T20 match after he last played against England in the same format in early 2012. Amin, 24, who has played four Tests, 14 ODIs and nine T20 matches, is a stylish left hander who last played in a T20 in December 2013. Left arm spinner Hasan, 22, played seven T20 games in 2012 before being sidelined with a back injury. Justifying Amin’s selection, Moin said: “Amin’s current form and performance helped him win his place back and we are satisfied with his fitness level and current form. He himself is a keen player and kept himself thriving for top-level cricket. Hence we handed him another chance.” The pattern of selection for the Australia series showed that the selectors had taken a bold step of shutting the door on a few senior players, like Shoaib Malik, Kamran Akmal and Younus.
Still hoping: But star batsman Younus told reporters in Karachi he had not given up hope of playing at the World Cup. “I will do my best to force my way back into the ODI side. I have no plans to retire from this format as yet,” he added.
Pakistan ODI squad:
Misbahul Haq (capt), Ahmad Shahzad, Mohammad Hafeez, Umar Akmal, Fawad Alam, Umar Amin, Asad Shafiq, Sohaib Maqsood, Sarfaraz Ahmed, Shahid Afridi, Raza Hasan, Mohammad Irfan, Anwar Ali, Wahab Riaz and Junaid Khan. Daily Times
Toronto set to unveil first museum of Islamic culture in North America شمالی امریکہ میں مسلم ثقافت کا پہلا موزیم
Luis Monreal is a ball of energy who speaks quickly and wields a large vocabulary. Born in Spain to a Catalan mother and a Basque father, he is fluent in French, Spanish, English, German, and (he smiles) “some Arabic.”
The man who runs the Aga Khan Trust for Culture in Geneva is in Toronto, preparing for the opening of the new Aga Khan Museum.
Lighting technicians, carpenters, curators and cleaners bustle through the galleries, scrambling to get everything finished for a press preview Wednesday. The facility, which opens next week, is the first museum of Islamic art in North America.
Mr. Monreal threads his way to a glass box inside which glows a gold disc the size of a tea saucer.
The Aga Khan Foundation will be opening a new museum, cultural centre and prayer hall on Toronto's Wynford Drive next week.
“Now a major piece in the museum is a very small one,” he said. “This is an astrolabe, made in Spain in the 14th century — probably made in Toledo, Spain, not Toledo, Ohio! The inscription is in Arabic, Hebrew and Latin.”
An astrolabe, he explains, is an astronomical tool, a medieval piece of high technology used for navigation. Not far away sprawls a mamluk, a traditional square fountain of mosaic marble in geometric patterns, made in the 15th century for a home in Cairo.
Then there’s a 12th-century Afghan candlestick “for a very big candle.” Another case displays white ceramic pots with blue glaze. “These are produced in Syria in the 14th century,” said Mr. Monreal.
In a grand hall, workers with a mobile crane have just hung a tapestry pierced in an intricate pattern with 1.2-million pins. The museum commissioned the piece from Aisha Khalid, an artist based in Lahore, Pakistan, who is here supervising the installation.
Syria. Egypt. Afghanistan. Pakistan. These place-names drip with blood in 2014, conjuring images of unrest, protest, bombings and civil war. The Aga Khan Museum, which opens Sept. 18, offers a welcome antidote to these clichés through art that celebrates the rich cultural history of the Islamic world.
The building’s architect, Fumihiko Maki of Japan, has used geometric patterns inspired by the great mosques of classical Islam, repeating them in the inlaid floor of the courtyard, etched glass, and wood screens in the auditorium.
All this is an intellectual investment by the Swiss-based Aga Khan Development Network, a sprawling non-profit empire, employing 80,000 people in 30 countries, headed by one of the world’s lesser-known royals, Prince Karim Aga Khan, 77. Lesser-known but well-to-do, the 49th Aga Khan lives on an estate called Aiglemont, north of Paris, and owns hundreds of racehorses. He also has private investments; in 2010 Forbes magazine put his personal fortune at US$800-million. He is not a household name in Canada — yet.
Claiming direct descent from the Prophet Muhammad, the Aga Khan is the spiritual leader of an estimated 15 million Ismaili Muslims, thousands of whom came to Canada to escape persecution in East Africa in the 1970s. Today about 100,000 of them call Canada home.
Lately, the Aga Khan has spent time and money in this country. He addressed Parliament in February; recently the government of Canada gave his network $30-million and a 99-year lease on the former Canadian war museum in Ottawa to establish a Global Centre for Pluralism, a joint venture between the Aga Khan’s network and the government. In May, he spoke at the Every Woman Every Child conference in Toronto.
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Peter J. Thompson/National PostThe Aga Khan Museum's auditorium stairs
About a decade ago, his network bought seven hectares of land north of downtown Toronto from the Bata family. It angered some when it knocked down the Bata Shoe headquarters, a John P. Parkin building that some compared to the Acropolis in Athens.
“It resembled the Acropolis in the sense that it was on a hill,” Mr. Monreal said. “We had a very fruitful dialogue with the architectural gotha of Toronto.” (He uses gotha, a German word, to mean elite or intelligentsia.)
“We said, ‘If you accept that this building goes, we will provide two buildings that will add to the architecture of Toronto.’ “
The Aga Khan’s network kept its promise. The museum shares the site with the Ismaili
Centre Toronto, designed by the Indian architect Charles Correa, which includes a jamatkhama, or Ismaili prayer hall. Between the two buildings spreads a park with five huge reflecting pools, above a parking garage for 600 cars. The investment in the site totals $300-million.
On Friday the Aga Khan visits Toronto to open the museum. It is a welcome addition to the cultural landscape.
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PIA air-hostess arrested in Milan for smuggling drugs
PIA air-hostess arrested in Milan for smuggling drugs
MILAN (24 Sep 2014 - Air hostess of Pakistan International Airline (PIA) has been arrested in Milan on suspicion of carrying heavy amount of drugs.
According to media reports PIA’s Flight PK 733 was heading towards Paris but forced to land in Milan city of Italy on the tip-off that someone had drugs on board the flight.
Upon searching, heavy amount of drugs was recovered and Police arrested the air hostess. After a six hours stay, the plane set off towards the destination. So far PIA administration has neither rejected nor confirmed the arrest of air hostess.
PIA hostess arrested in heroin case
While talking to the police Tauheed Noorani said that my senior officer handed over a laptop to me in which 77 gram heroin was present and I was not aware from this. Police left airhostess on bale however police subjected her to 15 month imprisonment in guilty of smuggling heroin from Islamabad to Manchester. Air hostess filed a petition against the court order. She was born in 1954 and would retire in next year.
Warid Telecom Contributes to IDPs and Flood Relief Fund before Eid-al-Adha
In this photo: Ms. Sadaf Zarrar, Head of Marketing, Warid Telecom, handing over the cheque to Director ISPR, Brigadier Anwaar Ahmed at a ceremony held this Thursday at Fortress Stadium, Lahore.
Warid Telecom, as a responsible corporate entity, has always taken the initiative to support its fellow Pakistani citizens in their time of distress. The company announced a contribution of Rs. 5 million for IDPs and flood victims through Army Relief Fund. The employees of Warid also donated their individual salaries for the cause. Ms. Sadaf Zarrar, Head of Marketing at Warid Telecom, handed over the cheque to Director ISPR, Brigadier Anwaar Ahmed at a ceremony held this Thursday at Fortress Stadium, Lahore.
Abu Dhabi Group, which solely owns Warid Telecom, is one of the largest business groups in the Middle East and the single largest foreign investor in Pakistan. Being one of the major contributors towards the Pakistani economy, the Group understands its position and is well committed to keep the economic progress on the right path.
Warid Telecom is also investing over $400 million to enhance its network infrastructure in Pakistan. The Abu Dhabi Group last year announced to invest $45 billion in Pakistan which is the largest single foreign investment in Pakistan. These projects include the construction of the tallest building of the world in Karachi. Moreover, the project encompasses sports, education, medical, media and international cities as well as construction of miniatures of the Seven Wonders of the World. These projects will employ more than 2.5 million people and will boost more than 55 industries in Pakistan.
As part of its emergency response program, there are a number of corporate social efforts that Warid Telecom and other group companies are making to contribute towards the well-being of the society. Be it the support to eliminate extremism or the worst flood to hit Pakistan in 2011 or even the earthquake that shook the foundations; the group companies, along with its employees, have always greatly contributed for the restoration of stability.
Forget radicalisation in mosques - 'Sheikh Google' is the real threat to young Muslims
As British Muslim women speak up against the so-called Islamic State, Radhika Sanghani learns that their biggest concern is their children being radicalised online
In recent weeks, the so-called Islamic State has committed horrific acts of terrorism. They’re thought to have murdered British hostage David Haines, and American journalists James Foley and Steven Sotloff. But they're also taking young British Muslim women from their families.
So far we know of around 60 young women who have been persuaded to join their ranks through radicalisation, including girls such as Aqsa Mahmood, 20 - who had a private education, wanted to be a doctor and had never shown any signs of extremism. Naturally, when she abandoned her life here to go to Syria, her parents were devastated.
But they’re not the only ones – a recent video shows a number of French women who have joined Isil in the Syrian city of Raqqa. The undercover filming shows them in internet cafes telling their clearly distraught parents that, no, they won’t be coming home because they love what they're doing. (Most have married male Isil fighters).
This reality of educated, privileged young British Muslims heading over to join an extremist organisation prompted dozens of Muslim mothers to come together for the ‘Making A Stand’ campaign, launched by counter-extremism organisation Inspire, in London on Wednesday.
The idea was for them to stand together and condemn Isil - but also to raise awareness of what’s happening, to help British Muslim mums spot signs of their children being radicalised, and to put a stop to the real culprit: Sheikh Google.
'We blame the internet'
Hifsa Haroon-Iqbal, a British Muslim mum, tells me that the internet is the real problem when it comes to young people being radicalised: “The biggest issue right now is the internet - it's Sheikh Google.” She recounts an incident where a young Muslim boy told her that he’d searched on Google for advice on how to stop feeling sexually aroused by his teacher.
He was told, by a website claiming to be full of Muslim advice, that he should change class. If that didn’t work, he should change school. If that failed? He should leave school full stop.
It’s frightening to think that so many young people can be radicalised online. It’s why Haroon-Iqbal is speaking up about it. Though she isn’t worried about her own children being radicalised, she’s seen it happen first-hand to her friends’ children.
“It is very important that we as women and as mothers stand out so that our children can hear our voices loud and clear,” she stresses. “We are our children’s first teachers and we will always lead them on the right path and our voices need to be heard by them and by society at large.”
READ: Why young Muslim women are speaking out against the Islamic State
The concerns of these mothers are particularly valid now, as a new study shows that young British Muslims whose families have lived in the UK for generations, and who are financially comfortable, have a high risk of radicalisation. Now families like Mahmood’s – who may never have expected their kids to abandon a comfortable life to go and become housewives to terrorists – are worried.
'Girls are living out a sick fairytale'
Home Secretary Theresa May speaks at the Making A Stand launch event
Khola Hasan, an assistant judge for the Islamic Shariah Council, and a mum of four, tells me her concerns: “I think a lot of these young people [who are being radicalised] aren’t communicating with their parents and their parents don’t know what they’re thinking. I can understand a little bit that young men want to join because they have a gun and can feel important.
“For girls, for them to want to be that bride, it’s almost Romeo and Juliet – it’s a weird fairytale. They think, there’s these lonely men, I’ll be this wonderful companion, and perhaps I’ll get to shoot a few people. I think they need psychological help.”
Like Haroon-Iqbal, she thinks a big problem is social media, with young people visiting a number of websites, or interacting with radicals online. She isn’t too worried about her kids, because conversations about politics and religion are frequent in her house, but she does worry for others. In her view, families need to counteract the propaganda their kids might be viewing online.
But what do young people themselves think? Are their parents right to be so frightened that they’ll get radicalised by Sheikh Google?
Parents need to speak to their kids. Urgently
Aqsa Mahmood, 20, left her family in Glasgow to join extremists in Syria
Aisha Khan, a 20-year-old student at Goldsmiths University, thinks so. “Obviously it’s sort of understandable as people have been getting radicalised online recently. But it’s up to the young person what sort of things they’re exposing themselves to. Maybe sometimes it’s an accidental thing, but it’s down to the individual.”
Having said that, she does agree with concerned Muslims mums that this needs to be something they deal with. Urgently. “You can’t censure completely everything online because that would be ridiculous. Parents should keen an eye on what their children are doing. I wasn’t allowed Facebook until I was 16. Back then I was like, oh my god, but now I’m glad.
“For young people post the age of 18, their parents need to talk to them. Young people, to be honest, don’t really watch the news or know what’s happening. But their parents should have conversations with them about it. The reality is we do have to talk about it or we’ll let ignorance prevail. If you don’t talk to your kids, you’re letting ignorance prevail – then everyone’s really shocked their child is going to Syria.
“All you can do is speak to your kids. Don’t brush it under the mat.”
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-life/11120869/Muslim-women-Forget-radicalisation-in-mosques-Sheikh-Google-is-the-real-threat-to-young-Muslims.html
فیس بک آپ کی شادی شدہ زندگی کو تباہ کرسکتی ہے۔
8 ways Facebook could destroy your marriage
Facebook was once a place to post how you were feeling and where you were going to spend your Saturdays.
Now, it’s sucking so much time from people's lives and it may have a profound effect on marriages.
According to a study cited by the Christian Post, Facebook has been linked to an increase in divorce. As the Facebook population has risen, the divorce rate has also increased, the study found. This isn’t all that surprising, given that one-third of divorce filings in 2011 named Facebook as the reason for their divorce, New York Daily News reported.
But that’s not the whole story. Time’s Eliana Dockterman noted in July that the study linking divorce with Facebook fails to consider that the people joining Facebook aren’t necessarily the ones getting divorced, and that the social network’s not necessarily correlated to the divorce rate.
Still, Facebook could be hurting your marriage. Here are eight and a half things you’re doing on or because of Facebook that could potentially damage your marriage.
You’re checking Facebook on your phone, instead of talking to your spouse
According to the Daily Mail, new research has found people spend more time on their smartphones than with their marriage partners. People tend to use their smartphones for about 119 minutes a day, whereas they spend about 97 minutes with their loved one, the research found.
You care more about what other people post than what your spouse does
Some would call this “the Instagram effect,” but the idea is simple: You care more about what your friends and family are posting on Facebook than you do what your wife or husband is doing right in front of you. Instagram does have more than 150 million users (many of whom post their stuff to Facebook, too), so people are bound to see some things on there that can grab them and take their attention away from their spouses.
You’re not liking your loved one’s status
This may seem simple, but it’s an important one. Much has been written by bloggers and dating websites about the effects of liking someone’s statuses, mostly because a large number of likes implies that the liker is interested in the likee. By avoiding the like button for your loved one, you may be giving off a colder impression about how you feel about them.
You like someone else’s statuses way too much
According to data from Facebook, Facebook interactions are heavy between soon-to-be couples, with post sharing and likes increasing within the 100 days before a relationship starts. By liking someone else’s statuses and photos too much, you may be giving off the wrong impression that you’re not tied down into a relationship and that you’re looking for a way to leave it.
Careful with some of those Facebook friends
It’s no question that you and your spouse are going to have some mutual friends. But be wary of them because they may cause you strife. According to the Pew Research Center, half of Facebook’s users have more than 200 friends in their network, so a shared friend is bound to pop up among married couples. Just make sure those 200 friends aren’t going to comment something off-putting or discouraging on your loved one’s status. It may raise problems within the marriage and friend circles, too.
You quit Facebook, but you still ask questions about it
According to research cited by the Daily Mail, more people are saying their goodbye to the social network, as they’re worried about privacy and getting addicted to the website. But when you’re done with Facebook, you may start asking your loved one some questions about it — who your spouse is interacting with, what they’ve been posting and what they recently saw on the website, for example — and that could raise arguments and complications regarding trust.
You didn’t do a good job with your privacy settings
Marriage should involve trust and being able to open up to someone. But Facebook creates the possibility for many other people to see what you’re all about. NBC News reported that privacy is a major concern for Facebook users, as it leaves them open to review and judgment by their friends and possibly the public. Conversations that should happen first between husband and wife are posted for the public to see. For example, one source told Deseret News National that his wife shared that he and his wife's kid started on walking on Facebook before sharing it with him. That was not an easy conversation to have. Facebook may also lead to people finding out things about you before your spouse knows about them, which is another sign of failing trust.
Your Facebook photo isn’t right
That’s right. What you display as a profile picture says a lot about you. In fact, The Atlantic reported that what makes a profile picture look good is the amount of engagement it gets — such as likes, shares and comments. But if you keep something unattractive up — like a photo no one likes — your spouse may feel the pressure to ask you to take it down.
Read more at http://national.deseretnews.com/article/2412/8-ways-Facebook-could-destroy-your-marriage.html#tetmGtWI3sKuZ53z.99
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